Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Baseless Cruelty from Friends

All instances of unkindness, cruelty, or insensitivity from close people should be dealt strictly. This is especially valid when such behavior is repeated. Any relation cannot be close or special if it does not bring in some amount of self respect. When you care about someone and sometimes without conditions and judgment, that someone can at least reply you with some respect and affection. They should understand your feelings and keep their communication transparent.

I don't think people who we have treated kindly have any right to treat us badly or insult us. We should not let this hurt affect us. Move on by ignoring the person in the future since life is very short to waste and wait on people. But yes, give them time and chance to explain. If they seem unaffected or take you for granted, you know what to do.

Best of luck!

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